Most women bear this “affair” in silence for several years, until the pressure becomes intolerable. Then they confront. Richard Foth, who spent his first dozen ministry years pioneering a new church in Urbana, Illinois, tells about one day when he came home exhausted from a marathon of appointments. His normally placid wife (by then the mother of three young children) said, “Dick, I have a question. How come you give your life away to all these people you hardly know? They get the prime time—and